THE HUMAN RACE NEEDS TO LEARN TO LOVE AGAIN.
That sounds like a big statement, but it is a fact.
if we don't learn to love again, we will continue to act as if we weren't all lovable creatures.
We will continue to judge each other, we will continue to let each other down, we will continue to fight over possessions.
We will continue to let people starve to death, even though there is more than enough food for all of us on this planet.
THE PROBLEMS THAT WE ARE FACING ON THIS PLANET ARE NOT PROBLEMS OF LOGISTICS, ORGANISATION, MONEY (OR WHATEVER ELSE YOU COULD THINK OF TO EXPLAIN WHY SOMETHING CAN'T BE DONE).
THE PROBLEM SIMPLY IS, THAT WE ARE NOT FULLY WILLING TO SUPPORT EACH OTHER AS ONE SPECIES, BECAUSE WE DON'T SEE EACH OTHER AS EQUAL AND EQUALLY DESERVING TO LIVE AND THRIVE.
this behaviour is a result from our behaviour against ourselves.
"EVERYTHING THAT YOU ARE DOING TO YOURSELF, YOU ARE DOING TO EACH OTHER."
if we would truly love ourselves, we wouldn't judge each other.
If we would truly love ourselves, we wouldn't keep all our possessions to ourselves if there are people in need because we would know, that everyone is worth just as much as we are.
If we would truly love ourselves, we would have an open heart to solutions on how to help this world thrive and live in peace.
TRUE LOVE ERADICATES HATE.
there is a lot of hatred in this world. and it is not because of "Bad people" doing "bad things" it is because of the love that is lacking within ALL OF OUR HEARTS.
TRY TO GRASP THIS:
EVERY ACTION IS AN ACTION OF LOVE.
even the "worst" and most horrible action.
everything we do, we do in the desire of being loved for who we are and who we want to be.
if we don't experience being loved for who we are and who we want to be, we get desperate. Desperation turns into fear and fear turns into anger.
"the greatest fear for a human being is the fear of not being loved, accepted and welcomed just as they are."
this fear feels like a thread to life.
since love is our true natural desire, the lack of love means the lack of the purpose of our existence.
which means the death of heart.
EVERYONE HAS BEEN A BABY.
A BABY PURELY DESIRES TO BE LOVED AS IT IS.
AND IT NEEDS THIS LOVE TO LIVE.
EACH AND EVERYONE OF US HAS BEEN BORN AS A PURE HEARTED BABY.
we just forget about this and only see the actions of a person.
"the action of a person is always a result of their experiences."
Someone who is hurt, hurts.
Someone who was attacked, attacks.
Someone who wasn't loved, starts hating.
(this is a generalisation. it is not always like that. but a lot.)
love makes you look deeper than the surface.
love makes you understand that an action is not coming from a bad or evil heart, but from a heart that is lacking true love.
NO ONE LIVING TRUE AND UNCONDITIONAL LOVE, WOULD WANT TO HURT ONE ANOTHER.
you can only hurt, if you are hurt yourself.
true unconditional love turns hurt into understanding.
true unconditional love turns forgiveness into understanding.
If you understand that no one acts from a "bad" intention, because their deepest desire is to love and be loved, you cannot judge and there is no thing to forgive because it is all action in deep need of love.
so here are some tips on how to learn to love:
THE MOST IMPORTANT TIP THERE IS
"NEVER JUDGE YOURSELF"
you will make mistakes,
and you will need them on your way,
for only through making mistakes
you can experience who you dont want to be,
to be who you want to be.
so don't ever judge yourself for "failing".
"you can't fail at living or at being you!"
the more you judge yourself, the more pressure you put on yourself. you have to peel off those layers of judgements and expectations and let yourself be.
and if you realise that you are judging yourself, then do not judge yourself for judging yourself.
just accept it, take it and leave it.